According to my Nancy Drew skills, I am 90% sure that Amy left MM. And his voicemail has been full for 5 days. So he is either in an isolated cave and his father is comforting him or he has a new woman with a rice burner. (you figure out the clue). I don't know if I should feel sorry for Amy for all her valiant efforts (and I mean that seriously) or for the new woman whom he may extract sympathy from. Maybe it's for the best?
Only Nancy Drew knows.
Spotted. trade up or trade down at the 40th parallel adjacent to the lot.
Spotted. MM with a younger woman.
I guess I am still nosey even though I am in a good relationship.
KK left MM for someone better but it turns out she married an alcoholic like her past. Maybe she should work on forgiveness to MM because he doesn't want to have meaningful correspondence with her. If you live in another state, let the restraining order go. You've gotten your just reward, so let MM move on.
In general, most men want the same thing. Uncomplicated sex. Some can advance to a more deeper level of spiritual, intellectual. MM wanted to rotate all his women and keep them all in some weird paradigm.
In the end, people want comfort, love and understanding. Those with the deepest empathy and ones who can overlook cheating will win out. However, good qualities in a man are exhibited by honesty, sincerity and generosity. Lacking those things creates the problems that this blog is about.
Why bother fixing people who don't want to be fixed??
XOXO
Gossip Girl
It's taken me six days since I spoke to him last, to sort out the truth. There is no future court date. It was another Paul Bunyan story. That is okay. The fog is lifting. I am getting back to my old self. I just don't understand why twice this week, I discovered two different women still want to be in a fully committed relationship with an alcoholic. After seeing someone else for awhile now who is perfectly generous and capable and honest, I can see why I was in so much distress for 4 months.
I finished my bulletin board at the school and I finished my first week in my newly promoted position at my primary f.t. job. It's been a grueling week. We had a new member at Toastmasters last night from India. Open house is next week. If you think you have a need to improve your public speaking skills, you can come.
I understand the women who stay with alcoholics. There was a smattering of alcoholism in my family. It forced me to strive for perfection. My mother from the Iron Range was a saint. My father was withdrawn and reclusive. Alcoholism is a chronic condition of Northern Minnesotans and Wisconsin people. I stopped drinking in 1983 after college. All 4 now.
And for all you descendants from the Iron Range, never back down. Make your man own his bullshit.
