No Solution in sight

If I act like Mother Teresa or a facilitator to help two people mend their fences, either way, it does not seem successful because these two people sabotage themselves.  They can't even successfully get one get together off the ground without it becoming a complete disaster.  I have stepped out of the love triangle that previously existed into the role of a friend, but even though I am supportive, I get shit for writing blog posts.  Guess what? My blog has existed since 2010 and the drama I have to endure just to be this person's friend is too much....  I haven't even gotten a good nights sleep since Wednesday.  All I want is peace of mind.   I don't want to be attacked just for trying to help.  Then if I step away, the explosions continue and they can't get it right.  It's becoming a burden because the man can't appreciate what I am trying to give even though we get along aside from this one big problem.  The other person is looking for an angle but she can't see she is really hurting him.  So the answer is, solve it yourselves.  I'm opting out for now.