11 Let us therefore strive to enter that rest, that no one fall by the same sort of disobedience. 12 For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and spirit, of joints and marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. 13 And before him no creature is hidden, but all are open and laid bare to the eyes of him with whom we have to do
The truth is, life is not a group hug. The Bible has requirements. Get out of the fishbowl. In order to truly love yourself, you must respect the Word of God and become obedient.
No matter who you think you are or what you think you are entitled to desire, the Bible cuts through the heart and flesh to elevate the truth.