People who are unable to confront a situation and hide behind crying, avoidance or mistruths could use this advice.
Unregulated grief happens to people who has allowed uncollected emotional debt to mount, who have not faced their problems head on. A pattern develops in which they see fire hot spots everywhere in their life and have a hard time extinguishing them.
If one is able to gently confront their partners, friends and co workers when problems arise, they will be able to rationally conftont their problems. There is nothing to fear. We all have shortcomings and means to make things right.
Yes, one's motives must be tested on a spiritual threshing floor. No action need not be wasted on haste or deeds intended to morph true motives through deception. Each action towards another should begin with straightforwardness, not just a need for attention.
Don't live in the moment. Decide carefully what you are trying to accomplish in a given situation. Be patient, because the other person may not understand.
Try to do everthing in love.
This blog is about my struggles and redemption. There are tales of interpersonal conflict with men who I have dated. I would like to elevate the blog to healing and redemption, tools I have learned in my 12 step meeting.
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